Allan Phillip Bernard

We lost our father Allan Phillip Bernard this past weekend, on July 19th, 2025 and we can tell you—losing a father changes everything.

No matter how grown we are, his passing leaves us feeling like children again—lost, longing for his strength, his voice, and the steady presence that once anchored us.

Our dad was so much more than a parent. He was a soldier who served with pride, a businessman who built with vision, a proud Métis man who carried his heritage with honor, and most recently, a great-great-grandfather whose legacy has already touched five generations.

His love was our shelter, his wisdom our guide. Without him, the world feels colder, harder, a little less certain. Even with families of our own, nothing compares to the comfort of being his child.

One of the most enduring things about our father was the way he always referred to our mother—his wife of 58 years—as his bride. We lost her on February 9, 2017, and he missed her terribly every single day. Life was never quite the same for him without her. Though we will miss our father deeply, knowing that he is finally reunited with our beautiful mother brings me comfort.

We carry his face, his voice, and his spirit in our hearts. That part never leaves us. The pain of losing him is deep—the kind that time doesn’t erase. He will be deeply missed, and he will never be forgotten.

Allan was lovingly survived by his children: Marilyn Jack (Bob), Cathy Smaha, and Mark Bernard (Sharon); as well as his cherished grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He is also survived by his dear sister, Linda Serafin.

He was predeceased by his beloved wife, Betty Bernard, and his parents, Paul and Alvina Bernard.

As per Allan's wishes, cremation has taken place, and no formal services are planned.